Life management

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Embracing Cyclical Thinking: Supporting Women’s Wellbeing and the Work Life Performance through Hormonal Fluctuations at Every Stage of Life

Perimenopause and menopause are natural transitions, but the impact of hormonal fluctuations on work performance is often underestimated, regardless of a woman’s age or stage in life. Women still menstruating, those in perimenopause, and those experiencing menopause all navigate challenges that affect their physical and emotional wellbeing. From fatigue and brain fog to mood swings […]

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How your Relationship with food Mirrors Your Relationship with Pleasure in Life

The way we relate to food can serve as a powerful mirror for how we approach pleasure in all areas of our lives. More than just a nourishment, food often carries emotional significance, influencing how we experience and process feelings. Whether we consciously recognize it or not, how we eat and how we feel about […]

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Why Intrinsic Motivation is Key to Lasting Wellbeing Change (And Why External Pressure Doesn’t Work)

When it comes to fostering lasting change in well-being habits, whether that’s through physical activity, nutrition, or mindfulness, it’s easy to get caught up in pushing our own version of what works. As coaches, fitness advocates, or wellbeing enthusiasts, we often promote the routines we believe in. But here’s the hard truth: simply imposing our […]

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Learning to Regulate Your Nervous System Year-Round: Why Consistency is Key

In today’s fast-paced world, we often find ourselves living in a constant state of heightened stress and pressure. The weight of work, family obligations, and personal expectations can easily send our nervous systems into overdrive. And when we finally get to the weekend or holidays, we expect to be able to wind down and relax, […]

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Taking risks can lead you to a better life

The common emotions I encounter in my coaching work are uncertainty, anxiety and stress. Stress caused by things happening quickly and there is simply too many things to handle. Life is reactive and people lose their focus and feel frustrated because of constant changes and redundancies. It seems that people feel stuck in a situation […]

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Compulsive eating as a coping mechanism for shame

A child’s feeling always communicates a need. Shame arises when our needs are not met in early interactions and we are not met with them. We ourselves internally turn our backs on our needs if we learn to think that they are not important. Shame maintains a false self-image: various beliefs and perceptions of one’s […]

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Thoughts about weightloss, Ozempic and consciousness

I’ve been following the discussion around the weightloss drug Ozempic. One side condemns the use of the drug and accuses overweight people of a lack of self-discipline and willpower, and the other side justifies the use of the drug by saying that it was the last possibility and an opportunity to lose weight when all […]

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Finding the perfect balance

You often hear that people wish for balanced well-being in their lives. I personally believe that there is no perfect balance. Life is constantly changing different phases that include different events. Life is then balancing between these different stages and events. Since well-being consists of so many areas, when one thing is right, another area […]

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No one is meant to live alone

https://norayrjola.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/NY.mp4 I had the wonderful opportunity to participate in the episode of Ulla Jones, Minna Ruusuvuore and Liisa Holma’s Lähtijät podcast, which discussed a culture that does not suit you. An inappropriate culture can mean different things to people. In companies, it can happen that the management starts working on an organizational change, in which […]

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